Saturday, January 28, 2012

Weekend Events

This coming week entails traveling to Phoenix for training. The plan is to leave on Tuesday, the 31st and the training will last until Friday, the 3rd. Four of us will be traveling and staying in the same motel.   

I’ve printed out all the training materials and policies and feel as if I’ve killed at least an entire tree. All this to become an Equal Employment Opportunity Liaison for those staff who may have a complaint or questions regarding the law and our agency policies that govern said behavior or misbehavior.

But for now, I have the weekend. A long weekend as I took Friday off. Dennis and I traveled to Tucson for dental appointments. I had a very good exam and cleaning and it appears the investment in the sonic toothbrush has paid off! Minimal buildup and scaling! At least that’s how it worked out for me. Dennis’ appointment wasn’t quite as good. He has some serious decisions to make regarding his dental care.

We took the ‘long way’ home and stopped to pick up our grandson Zachary for the weekend. I was up early this morning cleaning veggies and fruit for the weekend. He already told his Gam’Pa he wants dippy eggs for breakfast with toast AND waffles AND bacon! In our home, Dennis is the breakfast maker.

I’m planning on making my homemade mac and cheese only it will be more like noodles Alfredo with some broccoli thrown in for good measure. I’m not sure if I want to begin the brownies now our wait for Zachary to wake up and help – decisions, decisions. I will prepare the homemade ice cream mix – it’s always good to have that ready to go in the refrigerator.

I have all the blueberries, red grapes, broccoli, cauliflower, celery and carrots cleaned and ready to go. My hands are prune-y from being water logged, but that’s a small price to pay for eating well and fixing things I know he likes to eat at Gam’Ma’s.

Dennis has made an appointment to visit our son in jail this afternoon. I will not be going nor do I wish for Zachary to see his father like that. Remember, I work in prison and it is and has always been difficult for me to see the small children who come to visit their parents in this environment.

Zachary said a few things yesterday that were difficult to hear and it showed the level of hurt and anger this little four year old is feeling. His mom shared that he told her that his dad is dead and then he (and she) cried and cried about it. His mom said he’s begun sucking his thumb again, has even wet the bed and is angry all the time. I talked to his mom about finding some counseling for him, but she is without insurance and they live in such a rural area I don’t know if it will be possible. Zachary told us on the way home that, “My Dad broke my Mom’s heart.” I wanted to cry…

I don’t understand how this generation cannot think through the consequences of their actions or of the innocents they leave in their wake.

In the meantime, Dennis and I will be loving and hugging on Zachary. We will reassure him that he is loved by us, by his mother and by his father and most assuredly by God.

Proverbs 31:9

New American Standard Bible

9 Open your mouth, judge righteously,
and defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.



  1. Sending you loving hugs, Tamara.
    I want to protect all children from pain and hurt...and know that you are doing the same for your sweet sweet Zachary. I will pray for Zachary, Tamara. I promise that I will. I count on the Lord to take care of my loved ones... and my friends' loved ones are mine, too.

  2. Oh Jackie, thank you so very much! Sometimes just thinking of this brings tears to my eyes. But this I know:

    23 God is the God who gives peace. May he make you holy through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept free from blame. May you be without blame from now until our Lord Jesus Christ comes. 24 The One who has chosen you is faithful. He will do all these things. 25 Brothers and sisters, pray for us. ~1 Thessalonians 5:23-25

    Hugz, my Dear Friend!

  3. Well it's clear that Zachary is in good hands with you and grandpa. Thank God for that. It is a sad situation Tamara. I will pray that our Lord will comfort and guide all of you especially little Zach. Love Di ♥

  4. our prayers are never wasted..God always hears! Zachary is lucky to have you in his life.
    I am your newest follower..pls follow back if you can.

    1. Thanks for following and I will check in with your blog. Hugz

  5. Hi Tamara, thank you for Following me, I have Followed you back! I love your outlook on life and the design of this blog so much! Your grandson's situation is truly heartbreaking, he is blessed to have you and your husband in his life though. What a difference you are making!

    1. I knew when I read about "why" the Recovering Church Lady, I just had to follow your blog! Bless your heart!

    2. I also wanted to mention that the blog design is my own! Who knew? I just like things in "black & white". Gray areas are confusing!


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