This was my
devotional yesterday:
God looks at us
with love, kindness, and great compassion at all times.
Zephaniah 3:17 tells us that God takes great delight in us, calms and
quiets us with divine love, and rejoices over us with singing. I wonder what
song God is singing over me right now? What song is God singing over you?
Scripture says that it is a song of rejoicing and delight. I wonder what effect
it would have on us if we could hear, just once, the words of God’s song for
us.
- Leigh
Harrison
Birthed in
Prayer: Pregnancy as a Spiritual Journey
From the Upper Room Devotional
Zephaniah
3:17New International Version (NIV)
The Lord your
God is with you,
the Mighty Warrior who saves.
He will take great delight in you;
in his love he will no longer rebuke you,
but will rejoice over you with singing.”
the Mighty Warrior who saves.
He will take great delight in you;
in his love he will no longer rebuke you,
but will rejoice over you with singing.”
Then I recalled something I
had read somewhere that described an African Tribe that created original songs
to sing to the newborns. I recall thinking what a wonderful gift that was to
and for the child.
After a bit of internet
research, this is what I found on The Free Thought Project
Tribe in Africa where the birth date
of a child is counted not from when they were born
CAUTION:
EXPLICIT PHOTOGRAPHS OF TRIBAL WOMAN and what I consider to be inappropriate
ads for some faux news items (how to eliminate belly fat).
(T)here
is a tribe in Africa where the birth date of a
child is counted not from when they were born, nor from when they are conceived
but from the day that the child was a thought in its mother’s mind. And when a
woman decides that she will have a child, she goes off and sits under a tree,
by herself, and she listens until she can hear the song of the child that wants
to come. And after she’s heard the song of this child, she comes back to the
man who will be the child’s father, and teaches it to him. And then, when they
make love to physically conceive the child, some of that time they sing the
song of the child, as a way to invite it.
And then,
when the mother is pregnant, the mother teaches that child’s song to the
midwives and the old women of the village, so that when the child is born, the
old women and the people around her sing the child’s song to welcome it. And
then, as the child grows up, the other villagers are taught the child’s song.
If the child falls, or hurts its knee, someone picks it up and sings its song
to it. Or perhaps the child does something wonderful, or goes through the rites
of puberty, then as a way of honoring this person, the people of the village
sing his or her song.
In the
African tribe there is one other occasion upon which the villagers sing to the
child. If at any time during his or her life, the person commits a crime or
aberrant social act, the individual is called to the center of the village and
the people in the community form a circle around them. Then they sing their
song to them.
The
tribe recognizes that the correction for antisocial behavior is not punishment;
it is love and the remembrance of identity. When you recognize your own song,
you have no desire or need to do anything that would hurt another.
And it
goes this way through their life. In marriage, the songs are sung, together.
And finally, when this child is lying in bed, ready to die, all the villagers
know his or her song, and they sing—for the last time—the song to that person.
You may
not have grown up in an African tribe that sings your song to you at crucial
life transitions, but life is always reminding you when you are in tune with
yourself and when you are not. When you feel good, what you are doing matches
your song, and when you feel awful, it doesn’t. In the end, we shall all
recognize our song and sing it well. You may feel a little warbly at the
moment, but so have all the great singers. Just keep singing and you’ll find
your way home.
The
tribe in this story is known as the Himba Tribe. They live in the northern
parts of Namibia on the
banks of the Kunene
River .
Whether
or not this recount is folklore or actually happens, we can all learn an
insightful lesson from this story. Dwelling on the negative only tends to
contribute to its power, true salvation is freedom from negativity.
Wishing you everyday grace,
Tamara
Oh how I love this, Tamara. Knowing you have your own life song from before conception must really boost one's self-esteem. :) But like you point out, it's not just this African's tribe tradition, it's our Abba Father's way as well. Sweet thoughts to sleep on. Hope you are well and joyful.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by, Susan.
ReplyDeleteA truly beautiful tradition Tamara.
ReplyDeleteI have little idea of what song God may be singing over me right now, but rest assured dear Tamara, I'll give it great thought.
Hugs
Love you, Rose! Mean it!
ReplyDeleteWhat an encouraging thought......(Like Rose, I'm giving it great thought.)
ReplyDeleteI need to hear it. :)
And what an amazing story about the tribe in Africa!
Yes, it is an amazing story. I too, need to hear my song.
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