Sunday, January 19, 2014

Encouraging Young Parents

It has been rather quiet lately. Nesting and settling into the new home as well as working the part-time job at church has been filling my days and time. My hands are dry and cracked from all the cleaning. I forget to use the rubber gloves.

It feels good to be “healthy” and not having medically necessary issues to contend with, i.e. kidney stones. It could be better… like getting back into the walking routine. I miss that and all I need to do is MOVE and DO IT!

We had our six-year old grand last week. It was his first visit to the new home. He seemed to like it but was disappointed the swimming pool wasn’t up and running. Yes, it does get cold enough in Arizona to close down community pools!

With that being said, a local big box craft / hobby store was having a “Kids Klub” and we were able to get him in. He loved it and painted an owl on a canvas. All for $2! Next time, we will look for something kid based at Home Depot.

In the evenings we would light the candles in the fireplace and let that light the room while we prepared for his bath and bedtime. It was almost a ritual that signaled the end of the day for him (as well as for me). We do this almost every night.

We have a wonderful patio and small yard. They both need work. That we can do and we are going to try to be very economical when it comes to outfitting the patio. So… sitting arrangement or table and chairs? The debate rages, but they will either be yard sale finds or secondhand store purchases. I was even thinking that a secondhand futon might be good for sitting and would serve the old dog (mini Schnauzer) well. But then again… will I be able to get up and out! The planning and dreaming is part and parcel of the creative process.

Of course, as with all homes, there is the upkeep and maintenance. This place needs some TLC and with that come extra expenses. We are getting estimates for new windows and two patio doors (or perhaps French doors). This townhouse was built in 1976 and has original everything except appliances. Single pane, old windows are just not economical. So it begins. Sorting through the never-ending list and setting priorities.

We have a wonderful family service second hand store call TMM – formerly known as Tucson Metropolitan Mission. They have a Re-Store shop where you can purchase appliances, kitchen cabinets, doors and hardware. Their Logo alone would make me want to support their effort!

Have you been finding everyday grace in your life? Honestly, I’ve been better at this some day’s than others. To find the everyday grace, I must slow down and actively seek it. Sometimes I find it in a devotional, others through the word, but often it is through people – just like you and just like me.

Most recently it was through a father and his four year old son. Dad was walking with his son who was riding his bike (fully decked out with a helmet, thank you very much!). They were riding through the campus of the church and stopped in the office. The little guy needed a break. He was so polite and quite the little gentleman. While re-grouping I gave him some paper and highlighters. He drew me a picture of himself and it is now hanging above my desk. 

The next time I see this father I intend to let him know what a good job he is doing. Young parents need to be encouraged and parenting is an important vocation, especially for fathers. There are so many absentee fathers in our society that we must actively encourage those who are not.

Wishing you everyday grace,
Tamara
P.S. Genesis 1:1In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.
I’m sure that is where my creative streak comes from – my Father!

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Welcome 2014


The word... the word for 2014… what shall it be?


So very many words leap out and beckon my name, but which has perched itself upon my soul? Last year’s word, S.I.M.P.L.I.F.Y. was so very timely. The word was selected before I even knew we would be moving from 1400 sq. ft. into 700 sq. ft. and then move yet again within six months into a townhouse we have purchased. How providential was that?

The word that keeps circulating around my mind and my brain is G.R.A.C.E. Yes… everyday grace… seeing and being keenly aware of the blessings God has bestowed up me every single day.

Grace

/grās/

noun
  1. simple elegance or refinement of movement. "she moved through the water with effortless grace" synonyms: elegance, poise, gracefulness, finesse
  2. (in Christian belief) the free and unmerited favor of God, as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessings.
verb
  1. do honor or credit to (someone or something) by one's presence. "she bowed out from the sport she has graced for two decades" synonyms: dignify, distinguish, honor, favor 

Paul Zahl wrote:
Grace is love that seeks you out when you have nothing to give in return. Grace is love coming at you that has nothing to do with you. Grace is being loved when you are unlovable…. The cliché definition of grace is “unconditional love.” It is a true cliché, for it is a good description of the thing. Let’s go a little further, though. Grace is a love that has nothing to do with you, the beloved. It has everything and only to do with the lover. Grace is irrational in the sense that it has nothing to do with weights and measures. It has nothing to do with my intrinsic qualities or so-called “gifts” (whatever they may be). It reflects a decision on the part of the giver, the one who loves, in relation to the receiver, the one who is loved, that negates any qualifications the receiver may personally hold…. Grace is one-way love. 
Yes, that is it. Grace is the word this year. God loves me even when I am at my worst, even when I am most unlovable. This year I will be seeking to “spy” God’s favor through everyday grace, be it a beautiful sunrise or sunset, a brilliant cardinal lighting in the tree in our small yard; especially if I am acting upon grace as a verb and bestowing it upon others.

The old hymn by Charles Wesley says it very succinctly:

And Can It Be that I Should Gain


Words: Charles Wesley, 1739 (Acts 16:26)

1.

And can it be that I should gain 
an interest in the Savior's blood! 
Died he for me? who caused his pain! 
For me? who him to death pursued? 
Amazing love! How can it be 
that thou, my God, shouldst die for me? 
Amazing love! How can it be 
that thou, my God, shouldst die for me? 

2.

'Tis mystery all: th' Immortal dies! 
Who can explore his strange design? 
In vain the firstborn seraph tries 
to sound the depths of love divine. 
'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore; 
let angel minds inquire no more. 
'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore; 
let angel minds inquire no more. 

3.

He left his Father's throne above 
(so free, so infinite his grace!), 
emptied himself of all but love, 
and bled for Adam's helpless race.
'Tis mercy all, immense and free, 
for O my God, it found out me! 
'Tis mercy all, immense and free, 
for O my God, it found out me! 

4.

Long my imprisoned spirit lay, 
fast bound in sin and nature's night; 
thine eye diffused a quickening ray; 
I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; 
my chains fell off, my heart was free, 
I rose, went forth, and followed thee. 
My chains fell off, my heart was free, 
I rose, went forth, and followed thee. 

5.

No condemnation now I dread; 
Jesus, and all in him, is mine; 
alive in him, my living Head, 
and clothed in righteousness divine, 
bold I approach th' eternal throne, 
and claim the crown, through Christ my own. 
Bold I approach th' eternal throne, 
and claim the crown, through Christ my own. 

Wishing you everyday grace,
Tamara